Friday, August 22, 2008

To the RUDENESS of some people!

Yes im usualy a very quiet person and i just do my own thing, but waking up to a very rude and uncalled for comment on my blog this morning not only upset me, but boiled my blood!
The blog train is set up between designers, to get people through the blogs and to give away freebies. IT IS THE DESIGNERS CHOICE WHAT THEY GIVE YOU FOR FREE!!!!
IF you dont like what i put up... DONT DOWNLOAD IT! No one told you you had to. Leaving a nasty message letting me know that its not good enough for you will not do you any good because one, i moderate the comments, and two.. who are you proving yourself too? The only person that sees it is me, and im sorry but your pathetic comment as apposed to the hundreds of people who download the stuff i make, the ones that email me personally as a thankyou, and the ones that leave comments everywhere saying they like this share well and truly OUTWAYS your childishness.
The thing that saddens me the most is that youve probly left comments all over the place on other blogs cuz their share or kit wasnt "up to your standard". Well here is a tip for you my friend.. if you dont like it.. LEARN TO MAKE THEM YOURSELF. I will refrain from using strong language, cuz frankly, your just not worth it.

With that all said.. i DO want to thank everyone who has participated in the Blog train, and for those of you who have left me lovely comments and understand my busy cercumstances at the moment. I am glad that some few hundred of you find this share useful, and that others of you found it within yourself to leave me comments that truly brighten my day. Thank you for your continued support! Without you all this woudlnt be possible.

Becky

18 comments:

scrapgirl said...

Hi, i don't know what the mean, immature and downright despicable people said in your blog to upset you, but don't let them. You do us a favor by putting freebies up, it is our choice whether or not we take them, if they don't like them...they can go elsewhere or do it themselves. Your work is great and we all (and by that i mean the nice considerate people who have a conscience and are not out to be mean to people!) thank you. Keep it up and to all of you who think that you can say stuff that is mean and disparaging to the creators, what are you thinking? Do you think it only takes a second to create this great stuff? NO! It takes hours, days and sometimes weeks, so you should think yourself lucky that designers give their hard worked on stuff away as freebies. Quit whining and acting like babies and be thankful, not spiteful!!

Anonymous said...

I can't even believe someone left you a comment that said something wasn't UP TO THEIR STANDARDS! How awful! It's so hard not to hear the negative stuff, isn't it? You can read ten nice things, but then ONE idiot is so upsetting! I can't believe someone would be so mean. Thanks for everything you do for us. You're right, too - if someone isn't happy with a FREEBIE, they should learn to design for themself!

Carolyn said...

I cannot believe the audacity of some people. I personally think you are a brilliant scrap creator. I want to personally thank you, for your time, talent, and most of all, your generousity! You have made my PSP world, a better place to play in! Thank you again!
Big Hugz
Carolyn

Anonymous said...

Thank you, Becky...for sharing your work. I for one, am very appreciative of all the scrap kit freebies. (((hugs)))

Anonymous said...

Hi Vamp, this is the first time I've been to your site and was shocked to see that someone had left you a rude comment. I really cant understand why people want to do that to someone, if they dont like what they see then theres a little red box in the top corner of their screen they could hit !! I have been psp'ing for almost 2 years, and that type of behaviour is the reasons I left Spaces and Piczo...its all so very childish and hurtful. I now co-run a psp forum and thankfully its a drama-free zone and everyones very friendly.
Please dont let someones jealousy and vindictiveness put you off creating hun. I truly admire anyone who can make scrapkits (mainly cos i dont have a clue how to lol) so I thank you for sharing your talent with us....keep it up girl !

Christa said...

People like that just blow my freaking mind. You just want to reach through your screen and snatch them bald. They must have had a very sad upbringing and live a very miserable life to be so childish, snobby, despicable, uncouth and pathetic. They sit on the other side of their screen feeling smug and "brave" because they are invisible, and they revel in hurting others like yourself who are talented and generous with their time and creativeness. Ugh, I don't even want to continue typing because this just boils my blood and it's not even worth it. Keep your chin up sweets!

Anonymous said...

I was download number 572 - I guess that means that I, as well as several hundred others, liked what you offered as your contribution to the Summer's End blog train. Don't let some immature person get to you, it's not worth it. Thank you for the freebie.

Unknown said...

I am so sorry that someone was rude. That is just terrible! Unbelievable. That just boils my blood that someone had the nerve to complain about anything, let alone something they would be receiving for free. Duh, hello!!!?!?!?!?

Unknown said...

Onya girl...knew you'd be an Aussie before I even read ya profile...go get em...people wanna be grateful in this day and age for anything that we can get for free...I say thank you to you and all other designers that give their time and generosity so that we the scrapping public can have such wonderful kits to work with.

Anonymous said...

so sorry you had to go through this .. some people just have no good sense or class!! however, i do have an award waiting for you on my blog :-D

Vella said...

I hope what one inconsiderate person said wont ruin your day. Some of us truly enjoy what is offered for free, even if it isnt the greatest, its free, so why would you complain? They should try making their own, not as easy as some ppl think. And anyways, yours rocks! So they can kiss my big fat rump lol

Donna Shoup said...

Don't let it get you down, it's their own jealousy issues they are struggling with and they are taking it out on you.

Jo said...

Hi Vamp
I'm sorry to hear about the childish immature idiot who left you that message. The old saying about one can ruin it for all is why lots of people stop making and giving away freebies. Hope this doesn't happen to you. Sorry you had to read it

Cathy said...

Thank you so much for the wonderful things you share with us and the time taken out of your life to do so.
Cathy

Anonymous said...

Hi Becky,

Sorry to hear about the rude visitor. Some people never learned any matters and go through the world acting like everybody owes them something, and they don't appreciate what they are given. This creature sounds like that type of beast. I wouldn't waste too much time on her if I was you.

Thanks so much for your shares. You don't HAVE to give away anything you make. I, for one, am grateful.

Anonymous said...

I agree that totally bites. I have been designing since 06, and I really like to get feedback from my customers, because that lets me know how to improve and provide better designs. However it hurts and aggravates when someone stupidly comes and tells you your not good enough because you don't fit in their little box of how designs should be done. Well good for you on carrying on and cause I have checked out a few of the people who have complained on my stuff and when I see their layout or products I find they have very sub par designs them selves.

So keep up the great designs =)

Jeff
BWScrapbooking.com

Deanna said...

I totally feel you!! If you don't like it don't download it!! And seriously IT'S FREE, appreciate that there are people out there who will use their talents for free stuff or at least keep your mouth shut!!! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Glad you know that despite this mean comment, you are appreciated by many

Unknown said...

I just read this post, my gosh some people have just no morals.
Forget about them there are hundreds out there that do like you and youre creations.
It's sometimes upsetting that half ot them even can't say thank you.
Hugs,
Aquarius